He completely flipped the switch. Mormons are very particular about dressing. I tried to date Mormon women, honestly. It interrupts meals, sleep, shopping trips, conversations, romantic time, and even fights. Realize that your Dr spouse isn't intentionally wanting to make you feel lonely or depressed, and they most likely feel as isolated by their work as you do. Dating a doctor is a huge motivator for me. We've been together since he started medical school. His fellow resident is married and seems like a good guy, I want to believe my bf will change. Yes; I suppose if each of us believe the other is brainwashed, there's going to be major problems later on. All people see is the money and that's it.
We met on the day he was accepted into medical school, lived together for his rotations during 3rd and 4th years and were all set to move together for residency. Mormons have separate congregations for young single adults, which is very convenient. Until you can believe someone else's beliefs are reasonable, you will not be able to treat them with the respect they deserve. Welcome to the future. See to it that she is aware of your plan, so you both can properly dress. Which is an absolute lie. What if you are sexually incompatible. You are the woman of valor eshet khayil sung about by Solomon in Proverbs 31 http: Good for you, good for your husband, and definitely good for your childen. See where it goes.
She seems to be ok with that, and wants to continue our relationship, and also talks about wanting marriage and children, and raising those children to be mormon like her even if I'm not religious. After deep soul searching, I decided to stop working and be a stay at home mom. You aren't engaged or married or anything, you can't just know that she won't see the light and remain crazy Mormon forever. YOUR prayers are just as efficacious as a priesthood holders are. There have been times in my marriage where I have been frustrated and angry by his lack of change. She started crying when I explained this to her. I don't know if it's worse for us: For me, it's been an inner battle with myself, should I follow my husband or should he follow me as I am one year ahead. We are still struggling to put our life back together for the sake of our marriage and our 3 boys, but it is a difficult path. I love his way of loving me,his compassion towards our relationship,his loyalty ,reason for mine marrying him not for his paycheck but I guess I also need a companion,a life partner,someone who will be beside me when ill be needing him the most.
We also had to move several times now and will move few more times. It CAN work, to be frank. Then here for a musical explanation of how those who yearn for a rational faith can resolve doubt through symbolical interpretation. Ending sooner rather than later is much easier and less painful for everybody. And I don't have issues with her, hell, haven't even seen her in over 20 years, but the experience with the whole Mormon thing gave me better insight in to many things in life. But realistically, if she is not open minded enough to even listen to someone who has a contrasting view of the church - how will she not continually discount you and your lack of beliefs. It's also possible that deep down she's like many of us here, and her shelf will break and she'll want out. I can be part of a church family whether my spouse goes or not. The man had essentially been in acadamics his whole life and was emotionally immature. And, whether she knows it or not she probably does know it but is in denialshe probably sees you as her ticket out of Oldmaidsville.